You can overcome any challenge when you want to. Creating your life your way is a choice you make.
If your world does not look like you say you want it to then pay attention to the thoughts you are actually thinking AND the feelings you are actually experiencing most of the time. Those thoughts and feelings form the requests you are broadcasting to the Universe and therefore the desires being fulfilled.
Ah, you need to know how to recognize the messages from the Universe that guide you toward your desired reality. Those messages come at you every day almost non-stop. Until you learn how to look for them you miss them and you stay stuck in your everyday life.
The Universe always gives you what you ask for. That is why the Bible says, “Ask and ye shall receive.”